Why Risk Management Keeps You Up at Night (And How to Fix It)
- by Earl Freeman
Every security leader I talk to says some version of the same thing: “We know we have risks, but where do we even start?”
It’s not that you don’t have security tools. Most organizations have plenty. The problem is figuring out what actually matters. You’re drowning in scan results, compliance requirements, and security alerts but which risks genuinely threaten your organization?
The Real Problem
Your vulnerability scanner flags thousands of issues. Your compliance checklist has hundreds of requirements. Your inbox is full of threat alerts. Leadership wants you to “manage the risk,” but the budget doesn’t match the to-do list.
So you do what you can. You fix the critical vulnerabilities. You implement the obvious controls. You write the required policies. But you’re always wondering: “Am I focusing on the right things? What am I missing?”
That’s not paranoia. It’s a reasonable response to an impossible situation.
What Actually Keeps People Up
Here’s what I hear most often:
“We don’t know where our important data actually is.” You’ve got files everywhere servers, cloud storage, people’s laptops, email. Some of it matters. Some of it doesn’t. But you can’t protect what you can’t find.
“Leadership doesn’t understand why we need more resources.” You’re talking about vulnerabilities and exploits. They’re thinking about business outcomes and budget constraints. You’re speaking different languages.
“We’re constantly reacting instead of planning.” Every day brings new fires to fight. You never get ahead of things because you’re always catching up.
Sound familiar?
A Different Approach
Effective risk management isn’t about eliminating every possible threat. That’s impossible. It’s about understanding what matters most to your organization and protecting that first.
Start with the basics:
What would genuinely hurt if it went down or got breached? Not what some framework says should matter, but what would actually impact your mission or business.
For a healthcare provider, it’s patient records and clinical systems. For a manufacturer, it’s production systems and intellectual property. For a financial institution, it’s transaction systems and customer data.
Once you know what matters most, work backward. What threats target those assets? What vulnerabilities exist? What protections do you already have? Where are the gaps?
This gives you context. Instead of treating every vulnerability equally, you can prioritize. That SQL injection in your public website that connects to your customer database? Critical. That same vulnerability in an internal dev server with no real data? Important, but not urgent.
Making It Manageable
Talk in terms leadership understands. Instead of “we have 5,000 vulnerabilities,” try “our customer database has three critical weaknesses that could lead to a breach. Here’s what it would cost to fix them versus what a breach would cost us.”
Accept that perfect security doesn’t exist. You’re not trying to eliminate all risk. You’re trying to reduce it to acceptable levels. Know what “acceptable” means for your organization—and get leadership agreement on that definition.
Build risk management into normal work. When you’re evaluating a new vendor, assessing risk should be part of that process, not a separate exercise. When you’re launching a new system, security considerations should be baked in from the start.
Review and adjust regularly. Your risk landscape changes. New threats emerge. Your business evolves. What mattered most six months ago might not be the top priority now. Set up quarterly reviews to reassess.
The Payoff
When you get risk management right, something shifts. You stop feeling like you’re constantly behind. You can explain security decisions in ways that make sense to non-technical people. You can justify your priorities and your budget asks.
Most importantly, you’re confident you’re protecting what actually matters instead of just responding to the loudest alarms.
It’s not about having zero vulnerabilities or perfect compliance. It’s about knowing your real risks and addressing them systematically.
That’s how you sleep better at night.
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